I’m currently 21 weeks pregnant(also have high blood pressure )(Also suffer from depression) with my second baby. I currently work at a daycare (learning center) and I honestly used to love my job but now I am constantly getting reprimanded for things that I do that never used to be a problem. I feel like they purposely watch me on the cameras to catch me doing something wrong. I’m going to give some examples: I guess we are not aloud to drink coffee out of a dunkins donut cup(idk about you but taking care of 14 toddlers and watching my son I need that coffee) well my boss yelled at me for it so I’ve been putting it a cup that you can not see through....”Because the kids might want the coffee that we have” anyway I have noticed 5! Employees walking around with cups from numerous coffee shops and they have not been talked to. Also they make me feel stupid for my ideas. I buy things for my class that just gets ruined and never reimbursed for. Also my son gets sick twice a month there because we have to use a “non toxic” sanitizer. Here are some options I have.

1.) marry my fiancé early for health insurance reasons and continue to have our ceremony next year. (And because I love him and would like to have his last name when our second baby comes)

2.) stick it out and be stressed and miserable just for health insurance. And try and control my blood pressure

Those that stay at home: how do you make it work. My fiancé is a new police officer. So our bills would be paid it’s just that I wouldn’t have the money to do things and save. I also would have to get used to asking my fiancé for money.

Please tell me what you would do in my situation, how do you manage being a SAHM.