My husband and I have been TTC for almost 3 years. I have always been the one to do any research, try new things, and really carry the burden of TTC. My husband has always just showed up in the bedroom and that's it.

I tried to get him to take a vitamin once. The only thing I asked him to do. I even put it in a weekly pill case to make it easy on him and left a note on the mirror to remind him. He never took it.

Then a few months ago, he came to me and told me he is ready to start trying harder and do whatever we need to do to make this happen. I told him we would need to go to the doctor and have tests done, as a start. He agreed and said we will start looking into it.

Now we get to today. He had a Dr appointment with is GP about an unrelated issue, so before he left I asked him if he would ask his Dr about scheduling a sperm analysis or at least mention it and see if the Dr can point him in the right direction. He acted a little weird about it (which I can understand), and then said he would bring it up.

He just got home and I asked him how the appointment went, if they found a solution to his other issue, and then asked if he mentioned the SA. He didn't. No good reason as to why he didn't. He just did not ask about it.

I'm getting a little frustrated and don't know what to do. We can't move forward until we have these tests done. I have an appointment next month and I'm going to ask my Dr about getting my tests done and I told him this. I told him all he needs to do is jerk off in a cup, while I have someone looking inside of me and spreading my vagina open.