I'm almost 100% sure he's cheating...

I'll try not to make this long. We've been together about two years. We have a 4 month old. To start off he's super insecure due to his exes always cheating on him and even a couple faking pregnancies. Even then he's also told me he's cheated on them before too... he said it's only after the fact he found out about them doing him wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ since we've been together he's been the jealous type and at first I thought it was cute, it got out of control right away.... he accuses me of always cheating. I got fired a couple weeks after moving in and he didn't want me to work, I accepted and became pregnant a few months later. I'm not allowed to do anything. Go out with friends, he always wants to know who I'm talking to if my phone rings. I'm not like that with him, I tell him that no matter how much someone tries to "control" their bf/gf they'll end up cheating if they really wanted to. I've only checked his phone once and I saw he was still talking to an ex.. he said it was only a few times and I did see he would have a lot of missed calls from her but I got mad because I saw they actually still talked.

He goes out like nothing, goes to the neighbors house or plays poker with friends, do I ever stop him at the door and go crazy on him? Call him a million times and start accusing him of things? No! I'm not his mom, he's hell of grown to know what he's doing. He kicked me out the other day when I told him I was going to start school again and find a job. Well since then I started school so that's good.

Now to the story, my daughter is sick so I was up with her at about 6 am. Mind you this happened during the week and he had the day off due to work. A message came in and I was right next to his phone and I looked over at it like nothing and I saw the word bebe (babe). So I was like wait what and I grabbed it and I saw that it said bebe mi amiga va entrar a las 8 (babe my friend is going in at 8) he got up all quick and played dumb and was like wth who is this. The message came in from someone named as boy. So anyways. He was doing something on his phone and then called the number supposedly and a guy answered and he said hey you sent me the message that was for your wife. And he left the room and I could've sworn I heard the guy say ok. He sounded nervous. He came back into the room and I was on my phone and he laid next to me and hugged me and I was all of a sudden interested in what I was doing. He grabbed my phone and his hands were shaking.

I didn't tell him anything. I played it off like nothing. He's never affectionate unless he wants ass, he never wants to go out with me if I have errands to do. What a coincidence that later throughout the day he wanted to go with me to run an errand. I went to a bakery shop and as I was in there he stayed outside with our baby. On our drive home a call came in from "boy" and he answered and put it on speaker. Something he never ever does. The guy tells him. Oh I'm sorry about sending you the text in the morning. Lmao why would his friend call to apologize 5 hours after the fact when that's why my bf called him in the morning right? I confronted him and he said oh the only reason why my friend called was because I knew you were upset about the text you saw. All of a sudden he's worried about my feelings? He's so indifferent towards me so why would he bother telling his friend when I never mentioned it to him? He's denying denying.. he tells me I can believe what I want.