So, by BMI, I’m obese. I’m 5’4, 30 years old, 240 lbs and working on ttc child number two. My first is 5 now and I’m about 50 lbs heavier than when I conceived her. I know weight has so much to do with my not being able to conceive due to hormones etc right? We’re going on 8 months ttc now and it’s wearing me down emotionally. I guess what I’m looking for here are stories of women who lost the weight and conceived. I need motivation. AF just showed up literally a few minutes ago and I’m really pissed off and sad. My husband is getting pretty sad by this point too. I just feel so helpless.