I can’t Co/Parent.. Nor do I want to with my children’s father.

He emotionally/Mentally abused me for 5 years. Sometimes got physical. I finally left him.

But he’s still trying to manipulate me into letting him back. He uses the kids as an excuse to come around and try to manipulate me into letting him come back. Sometimes he’ll start yelling at me and saying it’s my fault he’s in whatever situation he’s in.. try to make me feel bad for him.. and then I’ll get random crazy text messages of him saying he knows I’m sleeping with other guys already and blah blah.. which I’m not. I just had a baby a few days ago. And I’m definitely not even interested in talking to any guys after dealing with him.

Last night he kept sending texts about all the sex he’s gonna go have to try and get a reaction out of me.. Which I didn’t respond and he started saying how he knows I am gonna be sleeping with some guy at 11 last night.. And how we’re grown and I just need to be honest with him.

I don’t know what to do at this point. He does not seem to care about the kids. He only asks about them if I don’t respond to his crazy ass texts making a bunch of shit up and talking about fucking other woman. The other day he said I’m the manipulator and that he doesn’t want the kids because he doesn’t want to deal with me... so he’s gonna go have babies with someone else.

There’s a whole bunch of other crazy shit he’s done/said the past month. I really don’t know how I could ever coparent with someone like that.

Update: What he is currently saying.