My partner is really intense. When we have fights and feels like I'm attacking him or I say how I feel which may be not what he wants to hear ( I do not hold back) he will start yelling, screaming, has a panic attack and will talk about killing or harming himself. I try to tell him this is an issue and he says he will change but I've been hearing this for a year. He tells me its because things have gotten worse for him and he's in a rut. I feel confused because he'll say he wants to get better but then say I'm the only one who thinks he's a bit off. What would u do?