Real friend or naaaah?
Little background infooo, we’ll call the girl Kyla. Kyla & i have been friends for 3-4 years. In highschool i definitely put her on to a thang or two. I always did cute makeup, always smelled good & dressed nice. Growing up, she didn’t really do basic hygiene things like take care of herself only when we went out she did. But on a normal day to run to the store she didn’t.. and as we hung out more she started picking up my habits. I considered her a close friend someone i could trust, someone who had my best interest. Now I’m not too sure.. i just had a baby and let myself go a little bit.. I’ve also been having some relationship issues which she was my main man. I’d call her up crying, have some heart to hearts with her, tell her what’s going on. Tell her I’m not feeling like myself, i feel fat, my skin isn’t that nice anymore. (Btw i wasn’t fishing for comments) i was just genuinely venting to her about my problems and my low self esteem lately.. well lately she’s been acting a little too good for me.. she started ONLY talking to me when SHE wanted to but when i texted or called her she ignored me. & she started to seem happy about my relationship issues. Her relationship isn’t any better.. at all actually.. but never did i ever feel happy about her pain.. idk she just started acting weird. Another thing, when someone looks cute. I have NO problem telling them. The other day we hung out, & i actually took time to get dressed do my hair and makeup like old times and as soon as she got in the car she looked at me and was like “oh you got dressed” i was smiling and said yess feeling happy and confident she’s like do i look cute...? Idk I’m just starting to feel weird about this friendship.. any advice?
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