My dad has been off the walls mood swings since my parents got a divorce in ‘17. He still can’t get over my mom even though he’s the reason they got a divorce but I’m not gonna get into that because that’s a whole different story.

I’m 20 years old, trying to move away and transfer to a university, but I seriously can’t. I still have to go back and forth to my parents houses because my dad doesn’t allow me to live at my moms full time and only see him on his days off. (He works 7am-9pm anyways so even when I’m there I don’t even see him)

I’m lonely all day and I’d much rather be with my mom. I feel like my life has no direction because he’s dictating it. I’ve mentioned living with my mom full time before and he said he’s gonna throw all my clothes outside and take away my car and everything from me.

My only escape is going to university but even then he’s become iffy about being in debt and idk I feel like I can’t escape.

How do I approach him and tell him I DONT WANT TO BE WITH YOU??!!/?/!/?.