The honest truth when it stops hurting


Ladies what is the honest truth when does it actually stop hurting ? Is it actual time ? Or is it up to me to figure out how to stop hurting ?

I have been cheated on, lied to, hit, spit on , the list goes on by my baby daddy. We have a 10 month old and I am 6 months pregnant.

On top of all of that, he is leaving his daughter and me 6 months pregnant. He is Moving away 600km , well he already left . And reality is my daughter and new born wont have a father.

I get it that we are better off. But when does the heart actually not feel ripped out ? Like is it me who has to figure it out, because I don’t know how to feel better. Or is it actually just time ?

Like how does a person heal when they have no idea how ? I know councillor get a hobby or job or whatever

I am looking for the truth when it’s okay in our actual hearts