Boyfriend& kids

It's never been a goal of mine to get married or have kids. Yes I'd love to find someone who would like to marry me, but it's not something I'd really consider a goal of mine. I also have never wanted kids and still don't, because I don't want my kids to be raised in a shitty world with a shitty life like I was. I could never imagine bringing a life into this world to live the same tragedies I've faced.

But my boyfriend. He Insists on having a child. He even said if I didn't change my mind later on that he'd have to find someone else to carry his child even if we're still together.

So I told him that if he wants to change my mind, he has to provide a life worth living for a child. In the meantime, I won't even consider it.

This is fair, yeah?