I had sex and got pregnant (yeah I know... I should have used protection bla bla) but a baby isn't really the end of my life. I'm actually really excited about it (after a minor meltdown the other day!!)

The only issue I'm having is it happened with a friend. Anyhow I obviously need to tell him, but whenever we meet I just go completely blank and don't say anything because "it doesn't feel like the right time"

Now I'm not seeing him till Friday and I have a doctor's appointment on Thursday, I highly doubt hell want anything to do with it but just incase he does it would be nice for him to decide if he wants to attend.

Would it be completely unethical and wrong to text him? Just saying I'm pregnant and see if he twigs on? I'm too scared to tell him in person!

(Ps I'm 23 so please don't call me a child. I'm just scared to tell him)