Advice needed- when to test again

Husband and I have been TCC for the past year. My periods are ALWAYS regular and I always have spotting 2-3 days before hand. After last month, I literally decided enough was enough and to just let it happen if it’s going to happen. I was sick of constantly tracking my ovulation and everything. Husband and I babydanced every other day and actually added in preseed lube to the mix this month. I am now 3 days late with no spotting and no signs except overly exhausted and slight nausea after eating. So far, all tests have been negative so I’m waiting until this weekend to test again. Trying to stay positive and not stress/get my hopes up. Every time I go use the restroom I hold my breath hoping to not see AF. Anyone else in the same boat? Any insight?