Curious but how is everyone’s sex lives now that we’ve somewhat adjusted to the new baby?

I just had my third son November 21st, am ebf and I still feel like I have not found my drive. I literally could careless about sex but my husband is constantly complaining that we never do it. So I feel like an awful wife. But it’s hard because my husband is literally home 2 days a week, so if we do get to have sex it has to be scheduled.

We also have to use condoms (which I absolutely hate the smell of) as I refuse to take birth control since I felt like it dried me up when I was breastfeeding our last son, so that takes away from the event too.

So I’m curious if I’m the only one because my husband makes me feel awful that I don’t want to jump his bones as soon as he gets home.