my husband and I are both military we’ve been married 9 months and we live three hours away from each other in separate states. His job is hard and he’s always tired, which makes him disconnected. He’s sometimes bad with his emotions and since he’s always tired it leaves him being unaffectionate, I know he loves me with all his heart but it’s hard. I feel like when we live together things will be different but is it okay for me to be feeling nervous?