So we are almost 9 weeks pregnant (finally after trying for 2.5 years). We already didnt have a good relationship with my mother in law. She is a piece of work! Called me the wrong name at my rehearsal dinner, and not only was it the wrong name but it was the name of her best friends daughter who she tried to get him to be with WHILE WE WERE DATING. She sabotaged our entire rehearsal and rehearsal dinner, and even our wedding day. After all of that we still tried to give her the benefit of the doubt. However, she screwed up the building of trust by going through MY PHONE, and looking at texts between my husband and I about our fertility treatments. (I had went to the restroom upstairs because the downstairs one was being used and didn’t realize I left my phone unlocked downstairs). Well after she got all the info she wanted, she decided to go tell everyone she knew about our fertility treatments and about our sperm donor. SHE SAID I DIDN’T WANT TO HAVE MY HUSBAND’S CHILDREN SO I WAS USING ANOTHER MAN’S SPERM. My husband was in a severe accident falling from a 3 story building when he was younger so because of the trauma he’s unable to have children. I felt crushed. But then to top it all off, she went and stole money from my husband. He received a very very very large settlement from when he was in his accident (specifically for when things arose, especially medically, that he would need to pay for. For example: future fertility treatments). She was over the account because he was a minor and she said that he could have it until he was 21. So at 21, right before our wedding, he asked about it but it ended up being a huge fight so he forgot about it because he was told it wasn’t much money anyways. Well fast forward to end of last year, he confronted her again because we were starting fertility treatments back up and they get very expensive, so he wanted to access his settlement so we could pay all up front and not worry. She continued to lie and at one point even said “well if the account is empty, obviously YOU went and took the money”. We now will be going to court the week after we announce we are pregnant, and honestly I can’t wait to see her reaction. She has always said “you better not hold my grandchildren back from me”. Well bitch, ya did it to yourself and now you’ll never have a relationship with them. And to be honest, her not being in our lives has been amazing. There has been no stress, no abuse (physically, mentally, and verbally from her), and over all life is just more relaxed. I’ll continue to do what’s best for my husband and my baby. 🤷🏼‍♀️👋🏼

Update:

Thank y’all so so much for all of your support! I didn’t really expect to get any support from this I was just posting to get everything off my chest 😂 we received a letter from the judge that basically sent out a letter stating that she wasn’t approving any past receipts that she may have! This is good news and my husband will be getting a what is rightfully his! We go to a deposition tomorrow where she will be questioned in detail while under oath and she has no clue we have recordings of her admitting to spending all of his money and lying about it. (In our state the recording is legal and will be used in court). Tomorrow should be interesting as I’m now 11 weeks and am having a hard time hiding my bump, plus a few people know and I’m sure they have told her 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️