November baby 👶. Shower ?

Okay, question. If the baby is due in November when would you have the shower ? I was thinking September because it’s my birthday so I could do a sprinkle birthday party (it’s my second kid but I have nothing left over but still don’t want to have a full blown shower ). I don’t want to do it in October because my nephews birthday is then , and I don’t want to over shadow whatever party his mom throws also I don’t want the family to have to buy presents that close together. When are you November ladies having your showers ?