I’ve posted here before but I need help finding a product for my little ones hair. Currently, I use a Cantu for kids. I use a cream when she gets out of the bath and I use a spray. Her hair looks good for most of the first day after I wash her hair. I don’t want to wash or wet her hair so often, but I can’t control the frizz.

This is right out of the bath

This is with a small pony tail on the top that you can barely notice.

This is when she first wakes up!

this is because she is cuter and It is a decent hair day. I want her curls to be defined and less dressy. What do I do?