Okay, so first I just want to put it out there that I'm not hating on them for having bedbugs, I'm hating because they knowingly have a severe infestation and do nothing about and spread it to others.

So, my mother in law and her two teenage daughters live in the same home and are very open about their bedbugs and absolutely don't care and do nothing about it. Also her older daughter got them from her and wont exterminate them either.

Well, we were planning on having the baby shower at my mothers house because its bigger than ours and can accommodate more people. I want them there because I do love them and want to include them but I would feel terrible if MY OCD clean freak mom got bedbugs because they all came and infested her home..

Idk what to do. Do invite and hope for the best ? I don't want to hurt anyone. But I'm to a point that I don't want to risk it.

Also we really don't want to do an outdoor shower because that would only work if it didnt rain and there's no way to know that much in advance and where I'm from it can get SUPER uncomfortably hot.