I lost my first baby in January. I had just got back from visiting family, I had sex with my fiance and afterwards I was spotting a bit more than I was comfortable with. So we went to the emergency room and got checked out we were there till at least 1am. They said everything was fine. My baby was were they needed to be and their heart beat was strong and all my blood tests came back fine. We went home and went to bed. I got up multiple times to go to the bathroom and decided that I was bleeding enough for a pad and tampon. Bled through 3tampons and 3 pads. I was too tired to drive back to the hospital (fiance doesn't have his license atm). I feel like I should have gone in right away, but we went back around 8am and got checked out again. Blood test came back and it wasn't good had an ultrasound and they couldn't see anything. No heart beat, no baby, nothing. I was heart broken and shattered. They were explaining that it was normal 50% of woman go through this but I didn't hear the doctor the first time they had to repeat it to me because I couldn't stop crying. After that my fiance was very supportive, and helped a lot. We have been in school since September so I feel like I wasnt able greave properly. I might be pregnant again and I'm kind of scared.