Whenever my bf has a major issue (car towed, how to get out of a lease with terrible roommates, now stolen wallet w/social security card), even though he doesn't ask for help I turn into mama bear (even though I have no children) and start working super hard to find solutions.

I've had this shadow of sadness over me all day because I know this situation is annoying tf out of him. He drives for his job, if he doesn't have his license and gets pulled over he could lose his job. He was supposed to go grocery shopping, now he doesn't have his money.

There's just so much going on and on top of that I know that it'll affect us seeing each other and idk how he'll feel being at my house since it happened while he was here (it was stolen from his car). It's overall just bothering the hell out of me. I know he left his door unlocked because he was sleepy and probably just wasn't thinking.

I know that it's not my problem or my fault but I keep feeling like it is. Like if we just would've rescheduled. Or went out to eat instead of ordered food like I suggested it could've all been avoided.

He turned his cards off and alerted the credit bureau about his social security...I just want all this to go back to normal 🙄.