So much to do

I am 19 weeks 1 day pregnant, I have a high risk pregnancy, my previous pregnancy I gave birth at 18 weeks and 5 days and she passed away. This pregnancy I’ve had a cerclage done (stitching cervix), I’m taking baby aspirin to avoid preeclampsia, and I’m on bed rest.

There are so much that needs to be done before the baby gets here, I don’t have that great of a house but it’ll be good enough for a couple years while we save for something else.

I’m having a hard time getting motivated to do stuff around the house to get ready for the baby, my man doesn’t help much it, if I ask him to do the dishes it takes him all day to actually get to it. We’re both always on our asses and it frustrates me, I get up when I can but I have been having minor contractions lately so I’m terrified to do much and strain myself. And since he sees that I’m not doing much he thinks he can just sit around too. How do I get is both motivated?