Why so judgyyyy!

Has anyone found other twin moms to be super judgmental recently?? I joined a twin moms Facebook group for some insight and I swear these woman are fighting each other every day! Aren’t we suppose to be helping each other instead of tearing each other apart? For example someone posted pictures of their delivery and these other Moms hop on telling her everything she had done was wrong and should’ve happened differently.. like this lady just delivered two perfectly healthy babies! Say congratulations and move on! Mom wasn’t looking for suggestions on a birth she’s already been through! It’s ridiculous makes me want to leave the group! If anyone has any suggestions for cool non-judgy twin groups let me know lol