Huge stupid fight and he’s at his parents. Over baby’s name.

So we started on baby names. We have my private scan on Friday to determine boy or girl. It’s our first kiddo together. I have two from a prior relationship. He has one from a prior relationship. All three of ours are boys.

Girl names we have a few options. Two that were deciding between. Then we went to boy names. He said if it’s a boy the name is Magnes and there’s no further discussion. I said I’m not completely sold on it and wanted to talk some more. He BLEW up.

I will say he had a super long day and got in an argument with his brother earlier. I was bringing up the little bean to change the subject from his brother. And then he just went off. Saying I named two boys already and he’s wanted the name since high school and I’m on my fifth pregnancy while this is his second kid (two losses, one a long long while ago and one when we first started trying in October) and that the name is decided and that’s it.

I went off. I reacted instead of took space and collected my thoughts. But I flew off the dang handle. Saying I didn’t rule out the name but I prefer Magnus and that we need to decide middle names and I just asked that we further discuss it. Saying I’m the one that’s been sick for months and has my body changed and will continue to and I’m going to push the kid out and that I get a say in the kids name.

Well now he’s gone to his parents and is saying he doesn’t want to go to both the doctors appointment and the ultrasound and he’s seriously pissed off and annoyed and to not talk to him.

I finally listened and just stoped texting him. We’re both in the wrong here but I’m just so damn pissed. At him. At myself. At the entire situation. And I don’t know if I should cancel Friday. If need to cancel/ reschedule in advance otherwise they charge you anyway.

So lovely ladies help. Do I cancel or wait until tomorrow or go alone? Also thoughts on Magnus/ Magnes for a name?