My SO & I use to have a good amount of sex (like once a day). Now our “honeymoon phrase” is over and we barely have sex. Most of the time I’ll ask and get told it’s unattractive and makes him not want to have sex with me.. so now I won’t ask and we won’t have sex. Makes me feel even worse about myself. I don’t even want to try and be “sexy” because I’m scared he’ll think I’m asking and find me unattractive. So then I just overthink and cry because I don’t feel good enough anymore. I know I should talk to him but then he’ll just say “sex isn’t everything” which I know but it would be nice to feel wanted for once.