Background: So my friend and I went to a dance at my school. So it was an on campus event. This was not a drinking activity. I’m sure some people pregamed at home before as well. So my friend I took drank a lot before. I had one drink cause I drove. And because it was not a get drunk kinda night.

So we’re dancing, my friend is so loud and dancing wild. The wild dancing was fine it was fun but he was a lot. Maybe it’s cause I wasn’t on his level but he was def up there.

So we were dancing together, in the middle of the floor a bunch of ppl in front and behind us. I’m wearing a dress and he lifts my dress up...... I scolded him by saying “don’t do that”. I pulled my dress down so fast! But I am shre people saw.

The room was not that dark. We were in the middle of the floor. People were all around us.

I didn’t say anything the rest of the time we were there. When it was time to leave and we walked outside is when I said something. I said you can’t do that. He kinda shot it down and said it’s not a big deal we’re in a club . He said it’s college no one cares.....he said I don’t need to freak out about it and make a big deal.

I wasn’t freaking out or making s bud deal. I said something when it happened and then later when we left..

He tried talking in the at but I knew weren’t seeing eye to eye. He didn’t see how this was not okay. He said this isn’t something to hold a grudge over.. and I’m not holding anything but it’s annoying and rude and he doesn’t see anything other than the fact that he thinks I was being dramatic about this.

He pulled up my dress. I had a thing on and I am in my period. How is that a comfortable situation at all? That’s so embracing. I don’t want anybody seeing anything of me.

Am I wrong for this? He isn’t seeing my said so I played music driving home cuz I didn’t wanna her how I was being dramatic and just to act like it was nothing ... he said you just say that’s cuz you don’t wanna deal with it... no... I’m saying we’re not seeing eye to eye because we aren’t. You aren’t seeing y side of this.....

Any advice or opinions???

Thanks