So idk exactly what page to post thos on but oh well. So yesterday my fiance and i were giving one of our friends/neighbors a ride to go buy a car. And on the way he told us some stuff that my mans mother had told him.

(Some back story... My man and I are planning to move from Cali where his family lives and we cant afford to Arkansas where my family is and we'll be able to get jobs n get on our feet. My sister is gonna let us stay for free til we get on our feet then we can move out to wherever we want. We're probably only gonna stay in arkansas for a year or 2 to get on our feet. Since we cant out here.)

Well my mans mother goes to our neighbor asking if he knows our plan and he explained y and that its also because of my mans drug addict brother who is disrespectful that she keeps letting into the house.

She told our friend that shes gonna not let that happen and that my man and i wont last. Like wtf.

Then she went on to say how am i gonna support him without a job... Since where my sister lives theres very few places of work (For people in school) im not gonna go to school for a bit. And she didnt ask how we'd support ourselves together but how id support him. Like wtf me and him are a team and he wants to work too.

Also him and i have been trying for a baby for over a year and a half. May 16 will be our 2 year anniversary. And we're planning on getting married within the next year or so.

Her point of why we shouldnt move is cuz we're not married... I moved our here from Arkansas over a year ago without being married whats the difference.

Neither of us can stand her attitude towards me. I dont know what to do other than save and move. Him and i cant live on our own out here as its too expensive. So our best bets were arkansas or colorado with his dad. But we dont wanna live with his dad either...

If you read this far thanx. I needed to get it off my chest.