Love life-help

So I started to see this guy and we had sex today. Which was amazing. But then a coupe minutes ago he texted me that he wasn’t really ready for a relationship saying that ever since his friend passed away he hasn’t had emotions towards any women he’s been with. But he said he still wanted to be friends though. And me being me I said how bout friends with benefits cause it was good, why not do it with no strings attached. I don’t know if I did something or is it on him