Hey loves,

My SO and I are newly together and are planning to take it to the next step physically. We’ve been minimally intimate, and he’s so wonderful and patient with me. I haven’t climaxed from him though. I’m an avid masturbator, so I’m assuming if I abstain for like a week maybe(?) I can build up sensitivity—making it easier for me to come. Is this a myth? Any tips?

Also: Sub-issue

We’re in college, same campus

But like

Where the hell is there to get sexy? We’re both in low budget dorms. His hall is even scarier and my roommate is constantly in mine unless she’s at a sport event. Our last ~romantic~ moment was in the library which was super irresponsible, and I don’t think fooling around is worth the possibility of suspension. What’s the best option?

✨thanks✨