We broke up a week ago and I’m completely and totally over it. We dated for 2 years but I had been emotionally preparing myself for it for months and have literally never felt better in myself.

We broke up as we were in different headspaces. Everything for me was falling into place with my studies, job and social life. The only thing holding me back was him. For him, he lost me, dropped out of university, is unemployed and not quite sure where he’s living.

He texted me out of the blue last night asking how I was doing, it felt so awkward so I just said call me.

We talked for 2 hours. We were cool calm and collected, just nice. He asked about me I asked about him, we talked about us and how now is 150% not the time to be together. He wants to be friends, I said that’s a bit too much for me right now. As much as I’m over him I don’t want to hang out.

Then we got onto how horny we are. I can fault his personality and our relationship as much as I want but I can’t deny our sexual chemistry was WOW. He wants to come over to mine today to have sex and see if we could do it and take the emotion out of it.

I truly believe I can but I don’t want something in the depths of my mind to regret it, get emotional or get detached.

Thoughts? We’re 18 and 19

Took everything in me, but I always listen to you ladies since most of you have a lot more experience and maturity than me. Took everything in me to beat the horniness but I did! Thanks gals