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So I’m 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex about 4 weeks ago and I’ve started to have symptoms and it was while I was ovulating, the only thing is that he just recently had a baby with somebody he had sex with while we weren’t together and I don’t really know what to do , any advice would be great

^^^Thats his son 😭

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Have you taken a test? Why are you having unprotected sex with someone who just had a baby with someone else? And at 16 years old? You know how babies are made, yeah??

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Take a test and get on birth control. Also- be mindful about the privacy of the baby, that’s not your child but your boyfriends and his baby mama

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I think you should take a test or head to your doctor to have some blood work (might rush the process of finding out a bit faster.) 
With your boyfriend having just become a father — I find myself wondering whether this is something you want? What would you do if you are pregnant and shouldn’t he have prevented from making the same slip up as before?! 
In my personal opinion, the both of you should be more the careful and get on some contraception of some sort (if you haven’t fallen pregnant already.) Seeing as he has just became a father with someone else, you’re going to go through a whirlwind of emotions from this point forward, having a baby YOURSELF and even WITHOUT. 
My only advice is to please, please, PLEASE be careful and work out what you really want - whether that’s falling pregnant with someone who’s life has already changed drastically or to focus on yourself and build your future before deciding to dedicate your life to a child that isn’t temporary, but FOREVER.

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