I moved to a new city without my partner because I did not want to wait on him to stop being afraid of change. We both have two children from previous relationships. His ex however decided to make him moving difficult and wants to go back and forth to court to fight him. His children are teenagers and they would only be two hours away from a mother they don’t spend much time with anyway. In the midst of us planning to get married and buy a house together I started having cramps which I don’t get during my cycle. Took a pregnancy test and I’m pregnant. How do you have a baby with someone whose two hours away and still fighting his ex for permission to move his other children? I just know I don’t want to be going to appointments alone nor do I want to be fat saying I do.