Friendless.....
Ok maybe not friendless but all my friends are hard to reach. I moved a couple of years ago when I was pregnant with my first child and it still seemed like I still saw my friends all the time. My boyfriend pointed out though that we always went to see them and did the kind of things we would have done pre-baby, me being the first of my friends to have kids. Slowly as time went on my friends fell off and I didn’t see them as much but I have a toddler and everybody has a life lol so I didn’t really think much of it until my gender reveal. I invited all my friends and even talked to them about it ahead of time about going and not a single one showed up. Everyone was real coy saying something came up or they forgot to they had something planned but half of them went to papas and beer and the other half went out partying in San Diego.... like I get that our lives are a little different now but my gender reveal was a pretty big deal for me and to have all of them not show really hurt. Now I can’t even get any of them on the phone! I really just wish I had more mom friends in my area... every mom knows your village or community whether it be family or friends is really important when it comes to emotional support. I’m pretty much on my own in my city, far from my family and friends and now that it feels like I’ve lost the last couple of people who I could vent to. As if pregnancy and mothering wasn’t isolating enough already... Well if any of you guys have tips on making friends or how someone approached you that didn’t make you feel weird please share lol
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