The ring & sex

Ok I feel so stupid for asking this question buuuuut I was thinking of switching from pill to ring but I read up on it and some ladies partners say they can feel it during sex... my partner has a big boi and I was wondering if they can really feel it or if it causes annoyance during sex. Also if he’s getting it deep, does it shove it super far up? I know it’s *impossible* for anything to get lost in your vag and you can always pull it out yourself or get a doc to help pull it out but like, real concerns ya feel?

ALSO is there a certain way to put it in like does the disk have to be parallel to the ground when your standing or can it be all squished and vertical? Idk y’all.