Hi everyone,

My bf and I have been dating 5yrs now, and sex had gotten a huge bore for me.

We used to get some every day at least once, but, as iT goes, and is ‘normal’ this number has gone down. Drastically!!! We are doing iT once or twice a month now.

And than There’s another problem: he noooooooow only lasts for maximum 15-20 thrusts. I have asked gebtly How this came about, but he says he just likes to look and he likes what he sees ... he has found a routine to get me to orgasm first.

Meaning, he goes down on me (I think of another scenario as he does iT - - - and I feel like a dick!) and than I get the few thrusts that I soooo crave.

I need more, longer, hotter sex, but I dont want to hurt his feelings..

Useful and construcitve tips pls?

Anyone else being a Total Dick and fantasising about other people or scenario’s?