Stop breastfeeding

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So my son is almost 14 months old and the only time he’s on my boob is at bed time. I cannot get him to sleep in his crib so he sleeps with me and uses me as a pacifier almost all night. I do not believe in CIO so don’t suggest that bs. How do I get him to stop using me as a pacifier 😭 he won’t use a real paci either.