So I’m 11 weeks pregnant i have one son who is 2 and a half years old.. I had a miscarriage in November and Iv had two scares with this current pregnancy. I love my in laws but though out my pregnancy with my son we knew the gender after 17 weeks pregnant and they decided they “we don’t wanna know the gender” so I couldn’t post a gender reveal or anything... this time round my husband and I are on different wave lengths I wish to know the gender but he wants a surprise .. we are yet to decide but again my in laws chipped in probably not knowing anything about gender reveals and stated well don’t be telling us ! I had a bit of a heated discussion with my husband this morning (we are on holiday) my father in law overheard me saying it’s our baby and it’s not your parents choice weather we reveal to the world what we are having or not and if I want to I will! Lol I’m quite embarrassed but I feel right in what I’m saying ... now do you all feel girls ? And what would you do?