Zoloft and TTC

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a while now. I have always struggled with depression, but was able to handle things on my own and went off Zoloft a few years ago...a year ago I reached the point where I thought it would be a good idea to get back on it but my primary wouldn’t put me back on because we were (and still are) trying to conceive and she said Zoloft is unsafe while trying and if I get pregnant although I know women who have taken it during pregnancy . Instead she referred me to counseling, but I don’t see a difference. I feel like I just talk to a wall. I’m going on my 5th cycle of ART cycles and I had a miscarriage with my 3rd. I want to ask my RE if he will prescribe me Zoloft to help since he’d have more knowledge of taking it during pregnancy and TTC but I’m afraid he won’t or will not continue helping us TTC. Have any of you taken it while TTC or pregnant?

Edit****thank you ladies! I had an appointment this morning and she finally agreed to put me on Zoloft...I really hope it helps because I was about to call it quits on TTC due to the depression and anxiety worsening with the fertility treatments...this week was especially bad after finding out I didn’t ovulate with the fifth round and increased medication.