Guys are confusing

Hi I met a guy on tinder, and we started speaking on Instagram a few days later. Fast forward three months and we have met up 5 times which have been good, the only problem with that is he vaguely suggests we should meet but I have to be the one who organises all the details and stuff, so I always worry that I’m forcing him to meet up with me. Will this make it seem like I’m coming across to strong? Also I sent him a friend request on Facebook three weeks ago, yet he never accepted it, though I know he’s been on Facebook as he has changed his profile picture etc, is this weird and cause alarm signals?

Lastly, I’m a very much one guy at a time person who’s very unconfident, so when I meet a really nice guy I kind of get attached and probably a tad to clingy which I know does not help my situation, but I panic if I am not so friendly than I know a lot of other girls like him!

I know this is not really a question, but any observations or advise would be lovely!

P.s I’m British so can’t really talk about emotions to people, and I’m 24

P.s.s. Even though we aren’t serious (to my sadness) I don’t use tinder anymore, should I delete it and what would that seem like to him?

Thanks lovelies ❤️