If your man was not compromising on a serious matter would you honestly...

In my case the problem is basically money management/near future goals (long story). I feel like if just me talking to him about it, months trying to get through to him... explaining this is a deal breaker... if that’s not enough for him to want to compromise and be motivated/care then idk if it’s even worth couples counseling. He refuses to even budge an inch for me. He also gaslights me and I tried to explain it to him but he’s either refusing to acknowledge he does it or still doesn’t understand or he thinks it’s ok for him to do to me.