Hello,

I have been struggling with finding women attractive. I’m married and been with my husband for 10 years. It’s always been something that crossed my mind but never something I’d admitted. I finally told my husband, and he thinks it’s hot lol he said it just means I’m curious. But I’m not sure what all of that is and what to do with it. We’ve been trying a lot of new things lately and trying to spice things up. One is porn, and one is new positions. We’ve been discussing what we like and we both like big boobs and nice butts. Is it weird that my husband and I both enjoy the same kind of porn? And get equally turned on? Also with just women in general. If we are watching a movie sometimes we will both see a girl and we will both be turned on. He thinks it’s super sexy, I just don’t know what to do with it, or what it means.

Is this something normal? Or am I just weird? I think I like the idea of being with women, but I don’t think I could ever actually do it.