TMI. Disgusted about vagina .. & giving birth

I’ve been really self conscious about my vagina mainly just the labia minoras they somewhat hang out and are a little stretched out like. 😣 as a teenager for the longest time I thought something was wrong with me like this is not supposed to be like this why am I broken it wasn’t until recently that I found out that not all vaginas are picture perfect but I still have such a hard time relaxing when it comes to others (doctors) etc down there and with giving birth it can be pretty rough as it is and I know medical professionals aren’t there to judge but I’m hoping in the moment that’s nothing I’m going to be worried about... which I’m sure will be the last thing in my mind once I start having contractions... but will giving birth make it worse?? I’ve been with my husband for 10 years and he knows how self conscious I am about it but he says it’s fine and nothings wrong blah blah but idk can anyone please tell me I’m not alone and how do I get over this fear that I don’t have a “normal” looking vagina :( I mean for the most part they can be tucked inside but for exams etc I’m always just so uncomfortable... like I feel gross when I’m really not and I just have to get o er this fear!!

Help please!!!!!