Why is it men only start to care when you give up on the relationship 🤷‍♀️. Like seriously I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 years ever since i got with him i have been depressed and hid myself away from friends and family and did what ever he wanted and I do mean what ever. We have lost a child after birth. Now we have a 6 month old and I gave up on are relationship he cant keep a job he lays in bed and plays games.

I told him if he doesn't get his shit together then I am leaving him. He thought it was a joke and it's not he said he has been "trying for months to get a job " but in the past week he now has 1 job and an interview on Wednesday

But it took him more then 6 months to get even a call back 😒

Now he thinks he does everything with the baby he does everything for me. He has been doing more but this is how it starts he does a little more then in afew weeks to a month he is done doing his normal

I dont understand why wen I stop giving a fuck then he wants to care and I am just supposed to wash away the last 3 years that he has ignored me treated me like shit ignored are son when he was hungry put his hands on me and cheated on me (when I was pregnant with are son who was not going to make it and made up some lame ass excuse. he saw a little girl on Facebook who got the shit beat out of her and he thought it was her daughter 😒. ) ( but he was saying he loved her and he left me and he was talking to her on are 1 year anniversary and for 3 days after)so he could keep playing the game 😡

I cant ignore it anymore I am just about to be a single mom and say fuck it I can do it without him.