Sex after postpartum

Gladis

So it’s been 8months since I had my son.

We been trying since I was 6months postpartum... (I’m not breastfeeding either)

We have tried a couple time to have intercourse it had been really painful it’s like nothing go up there without hurting me

I will literally start crying because I can’t not bare the pain

It’s just feels super tight down there I can’t even put a tampon in there with out crying and I automatically take it out (let me add I still haven’t started my period either put I try to help)

I hope it’s not a mental block issue because I accepted my body at least I think I did