Why is it soo hard for me to get pregnant at 33 for the 1st time ?? I guess it’s hard for me because I’m a lesbian and trying by insemination with a syringe. But this has been the 4 th month trying Nd this month I was sure we nailed it but I got my period 2 days early which never happens. I’m just confused and it’s depressing 💔😢its all just been off I normally cramp for 2-3 days but I just cramped for one it wasn’t as heavy as my normal period but the cramps were awful so painful, bright red, small clots Nd is started 2 days early and now is slowing down on the day I was suppose to start. I’m just down about it all I feel like I’ll never get pregnant 😢😢💔