So I really though this month was it. Af never showed i was spotting very lightly for 4 days when i was supposed to be on my period but i took a test sunday which would be 5 days late and it was a negative. But Af still hasnt showed up..... im at a loss here. My husband and I have been trying for 4 years since our 5 year old turned 1. And yes i am so damn greatful for our son but he asks us for a sibling daily and its hard to explain why we havent given him one. He just is to young to understand.