3some???

‼️Looking for Advise⁉️

So my husband of 4 years and I have been talking a lot about maybe having a 3 some for a while now! But it’s hard to find someone especially in your small minded hometown...

recently we went to a strip club and found someone that we both loved! She was super into us too and she added both me and my husband on social media... what should we do?!? Should we message her see what could happen?!? Or bad idea?!?