So, normally I never post on this app but I love reading about other people’s opinions on relationships, health, etc.

Just to give a small back story on me, I’ve been with my Boyfriend for over 2 years and I love him with all my heart. (The reason I’m posting this here is because he is a trans man :) )

But for the past few months or so, we’ve been fighting quite a bit... mainly over sex.

I love having sex with him, I feel very connected with him and very comfortable to say the least. When we first started dating when we were in high school, we’d do it every time we saw each other practically. Then we graduated and got jobs and that definitely changed.

I’ve never had a high sex drive in the first place, but I don’t mind having sex like I said. Over time it went from us doing it 3 times a week to at least once... I’m okay with us at least doing it once because we both get home late from work and sometimes sleep is all I want, but he had a huge problem with it. He often tells me it’s not fair we don’t do it more and then it turns in to he thinks I don’t find him attractive and that I’m not a normal teenager.... quite honestly? This has taken a huge toll on my mental health. Mainly because if I tell him I’m not in the mood, he gets very upset with me and he lets me know everything that I’ve done wrong and that I’m wrong for saying no..

I’m not sure what I’m looking for anyone to say here... maybe if you’ve gone through something like this? Am I wrong for not wanting to do it as much anymore? Any comments would be appreciated💛