What am I doing

With my ex, it’s like I knew on the first date, and even before that when we were texting, that I was REALLY into him. I felt the spark pretty early and everything. Now years later I’m single again and this guy I’ve met a few times just isn’t giving me that feeling. He’s extremely attractive, very smart, has a great job, and is really nice. He seems like a really good guy and I’ve been with so many abusive men I don’t know if good guys are actually just a scam now 😂

Plus I’m not the type to fall for a guy for his looks so even though this guy is really attractive it’s not giving me butterflies. I’m the type who is more attracted to personality, maybe this guys just isn’t doing it for me? He’s kind of shy but he’s said he’s been single for a long time. He really really likes me. And he’s sooo nice. So should I keep seeing him to really know if I could be into him? Or am I wasting my (and his) time? We’ve been texting almost every day for a few months and been on three dates (and have had sex lol).