Do you think the person who wants sex more should initiate it? I recently had a baby I can have sex anytime I just don’t feel in the mood all the time. My husband wants me to initiate sex but I’m literally not in the mood unless you get me in the mood. Being that he’s the one who mostly wants sex right now doesn’t it make sense that he starts it? I have started sex here and there just not as often as I did before. Prior to having my baby initiation was never a problem we both equally initiated sex.