My ex and I are going through a rift. Essentially, he was my best friend for years prior to us dating but we broke up for various reasons a year ago. Recently we rekindled but I just broke that off with him as well. So I made a list of pros & cons of why we were good together and why we weren’t & the things that we succeeded in & the things that we sucked at but in each column, I have an equal number of things for each column. So what does this mean?